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21 Apr

Masturbation Positions

In Masturbation

Make masturbation more exciting Witnessing people masturbating has taught me a lot. One thing I’ve noticed is that most people have a very boring and static masturbation position that they adopt. This limits their engagement with their actual body: they sit or lie in one position, their hand moves...

28 Feb

Mindful Masturbation: A beginners guide

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What is Tantric masturbation? The main difference between Tantric masturbation and ‘regular’ masturbation is the lack of a ‘goal’. Whereas typically masturbation would end in ejaculation or clitoral orgasm (and often that’s the sole motivation for doing it – to get to that end point), Tantric masturbation is more...

14 Jul

Intimate massage and orgasm: letting go of the goal

In Tantra

Intimacy is not always about orgasm… Avoiding ejaculation and clitoral ‘peak orgasm’ is a foundation principle in Tantric sex. For many of my clients this is confusing – they hear this and believe that they are ’not allowed’ to orgasm. The truth is quite the opposite. By moving away...

22 Jun

How you can improve premature ejaculation

In Sexual Issues

How can I cure premature ejaculation? This is one of the most common questions I get asked. It’s often also expressed as ‘wanting to delay ejaculation’ or ‘a desire to have more choice around the ejaculatory response’. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common male sexual disorders and...

19 Jun

Tips from a Tantric massage therapist

In Tantra

Giving and receiving massage is a fantastic way to create intimacy, trust and connection in your relationship(s). Erotic massage can take the pressure off penetrative sex, can help you both to relax, can add variety to your sexual routine and can even help to fix specific sexual issues such...

25 Feb

Using genital massage to heal vaginismus

In Sexual Issues

What is vaginismus? Have you ever experienced pain during penetrative sex, or when using a dildo, or even when inserting a tampon? When you’re having sex does it sometimes feel as if the opening of your vagina is ‘too tight’ and being painfully stretched? If so then it’s possible...

08 Feb

The benefits of genital massage for stronger erections

In Sexual Issues

What causes erectile dysfunction? There can be many contributing factors that lead to erectile dysfunction (ED). It’s important to consult your doctor, and address underlying health concerns such as high blood pressure, diabetes, weight issues, stress levels or side-effects of any existing medications you are taking etc. For many...

25 Jan

Massage course for couples

In Tantra

Nothing says ‘I love you’ like giving and receiving massage… Valentines Day 2021 will be a very different experience for many couples. Without the usual ‘romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant’ to fall back on (thanks COVID!), what can you gift to your beloved that will ensure they feel...

02 Sep

How to get better at giving and receiving massage…

In Tantra

Simple tips, amazing results… If you’re interested in my massage course for couples you’ve probably asked yourself, at some point, ‘how do I get better at giving massage?‘ It’s my belief and experience that being able to give amazing massage and touch is not just something you ‘do’…it’s something...

24 Aug

Amazing techniques for anal massage

In Tantra

Why you should be trying anal massage… Anal massage is great foreplay for anal sex, but that’s not the only reason for incorporating it into your sex life! Many people have more unconscious emotional charge (shame, fear, pain) in their anal area than in any other part of their...

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