Intimacy is not always about orgasm… Avoiding ejaculation and clitoral ‘peak orgasm’ is a foundation principle in Tantric sex. For many of my clients this is confusing – they hear this and believe that they are ’not allowed’ to orgasm. The truth is quite the opposite. By moving away...
How can I cure premature ejaculation? This is one of the most common questions I get asked. It’s often also expressed as ‘wanting to delay ejaculation’ or ‘a desire to have more choice around the ejaculatory response’. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common male sexual disorders and...
Giving and receiving massage is a fantastic way to create intimacy, trust and connection in your relationship(s). Erotic massage can take the pressure off penetrative sex, can help you both to relax, can add variety to your sexual routine and can even help to fix specific sexual issues such...
What is vaginismus? Have you ever experienced pain during penetrative sex, or when using a dildo, or even when inserting a tampon? When you’re having sex does it sometimes feel as if the opening of your vagina is ‘too tight’ and being painfully stretched? If so then it’s possible...
What causes erectile dysfunction? There can be many contributing factors that lead to erectile dysfunction (ED). It’s important to consult your doctor, and address underlying health concerns such as high blood pressure, diabetes, weight issues, stress levels or side-effects of any existing medications you are taking etc. For many...
Nothing says ‘I love you’ like giving and receiving massage… Valentines Day 2021 will be a very different experience for many couples. Without the usual ‘romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant’ to fall back on (thanks COVID!), what can you gift to your beloved that will ensure they feel...
Simple tips, amazing results… If you’re interested in my massage course for couples you’ve probably asked yourself, at some point, ‘how do I get better at giving massage?‘ It’s my belief and experience that being able to give amazing massage and touch is not just something you ‘do’…it’s something...
Why you should be trying anal massage… Anal massage is great foreplay for anal sex, but that’s not the only reason for incorporating it into your sex life! Many people have more unconscious emotional charge (shame, fear, pain) in their anal area than in any other part of their...
Give your breasts some love… Regardless of gender and the size or shape of your breasts and nipples, they are a gateway to orgasmic sensation and deep pleasure. Many people discount the wonder and beauty of their breasts and nipples and are missing out on an abundance of sensation...
Communication in sex… One of the most common problems I hear from couples I work with is that they’re not confident in communicating what feels good and what doesn’t and that’s resulting in a dissatisfying or non-existent sex life. Some people feel shame about discussing their sexual desires with...